I use astrology and numerology, which are 3,500 year old ancient sciences in my daily life and of course when working with clients because the accuracy never ceases to amaze. I like to call it psychology for the soul.
When looking into compatibility, I first explore the 8 main numbers within each persons numerology blueprints revealing their hearts desire, personality, expression, destiny, face to the world, life-path and attitude. With three or more numbers in common sharing a soul connection, then viewing the actual breakdown between each person, birth-grids and pinnacles.
Next, I look into the astrology charts for sun/moon compatibility – the sun is our core being and moon uncovering our emotions. Next mercury for communication. Venus reveals the love we like to give and receive so now I’m receiving a pretty clear picture of the compatibility between each person. If you both have Venus in the same sign for example that’s a great match.
You might not have heard of your astrology Vertex though – the symbol looks like this: ‘Vx’ (Vertex meaning pinnacle). This is the big one as your Vertex reveals soulmate connections. And yes… that destined fatal attraction, or connection that transforms your life.
Understanding Vertex’s almost makes me feel better for marrying my ex-husband! I was inexplicably drawn to him many moons ago, not my usual ‘type’ – I realised only recently I had a Vertex connection to him through six planets. It was destiny in the making (nothing to do with poor choices LOL…) All jokes aside we’re still kind of friends and when we do catch-up once a year or two it’s always a familiar feeling and we’ve no doubt learned a lot from each other. Our relationship was definitely a transforming one!
One of my best friends and I have our Vertex in the same sign of Gemini in the 5th house of Leo (which makes it a conjunction for us). She feels like a sister and had even met my mother before we met 15 years later.
When the Vertex shows up in your charts it’s “fait accompli – something that has already happened or been decided before those affected hear about it, leaving them with no option but to accept it.”
You may meet suddenly ‘out of the blue’ – with a strong sense you know each other from somewhere… This person can make you feel like you’ve never felt before and your life will never be the same again.
How to work out your astrology Synastry compatibility with your Vertex:
First, you’ll need to find out where the Vertex’s are in your charts. (I’ve provided a link to look up your Vertex’s at the end of this article or you can book in a private session with me for a more in depth reading).
Once you know where your Vertex (Vx) is, simply look at the other person’s chart to see where it’s the same. For example, if your Vertex is in Gemini and the other person’s Sun is in Gemini that means you’ll have a Sun-Vertex ‘Vx’ Synastry as follows:
Vertex to Vertex Compatibility
When your astrology Vertex ‘Vx’ is in the same planet and or house as another persons – it reveals an overwhelming attraction, common amongst best friends, marriage partners and ‘destiny in the making relationships’. There’s a strong chemistry between the two of you. You will unconsciously be attracted to each other and be drawn into each others lives. This is the one that’s going to change the course of your life…
Sun Vertex Compatibility
When your Vertex connects with the other person’s Sun, this is your idea of the perfect companion. Friendship is easy and you’ll have fun growing together.
Moon Vertex Compatibility
With the moon ruling your intuition, emotions and ‘mother energy’ this is a deeply protective combination. You will naturally be ‘in-tune’ and connected with each other. There will be a feeling of safety, comfort and deja-vu. Unbalanced energy can lead to co-dependence with balanced energy co-creative. You’ll often be in each other’s thoughts.
Mercury Vertex Compatibility
Mercury steers the intellect, how we speak and connect. When your Vertex forms a conjunction with the other person’s mercury (meaning it’s in the same sign) you’ll find it incredibly easy to communicate. You may even have your own nick names for each other and people, possibly your own language! As a friendship or business partnership, ideas will flow between you both.
Venus Vertex Compatibility
Venus is the planet of love and romance. When your Vertex forms a connection with Venus, there is often a powerful relationship formed that will change both your lives forever. Think fatal attraction, soulmates and transformation through the power of love. Separating can be difficult with this placement.
Mars Vertex Compatibility
Mars is your anchor in life and rules your sexual drive, how you ‘go after’ what you want. With Mars Vertex Synastry you may not want to get out of bed! You will be deeply attracted and intrigued by each other. As friends or business associates you will find yourself driven by each other.
Jupiter Vertex Compatibility
Jupiter brings luck into our lives. This person can feel like your lucky star! For example, shopping together or travelling you’ll find yourself in the right place at the right time. You can also have amazing connections to other people you need to help you in life through this placement.
Saturn Vertex Compatibility
What’s life without balance, right? Saturn teaches us through limitations, see the Nike swoosh? Yes… that’s part of Saturn calling to ‘just do it’! Saturn also brings karmic connections and ‘fate’ to work through. With this connection you can feel a ‘push pull’ effect. This is a responsible link – you might feel like their mother/father or vice versa. Lessons surround the Saturn Vertex astrology combination!
Uranus Vertex Compatibility
Uranus brings revolution and freedom to our life. As Uranus is very slow moving, in-fact taking 84 years to make a full return, spending 7 years in each sign, the house placement will reveal more. This could be the person who frees you in life and unlocks the doors to a new world!
Neptune Vertex Compatibility
Neptune rules Pisces and is known as ‘god of the sea’. With the placement of Neptune Vertex, you can feel like you’ve found your soulmate or lose yourself (particularly if forming a square / anti-vertex) which is 6 signs away. The square to Taurus for example is Scorpio. You may become lost in a world of dreams, with a deeply spiritual connection. ‘You are my fantasy…’ Check your house placement for additional information as Neptune is generational.
Pluto Vertex Compatibility
Pluto rules Scorpio – life, death and transformation. This is destiny in the making. A highly intense connection, think births, deaths and marriages. Check your house placement for additional information as Neptune is generational.
North Node Vertex Compatibility
Your north node in astrology reveals where we are headed to in life. You were both fated to meet – this person is destined to help you to move forward to where you need to be. As the south node reveals where you have come from there is no doubt a past life connection of old souls between you both. Again, check your house position placement for further insight. You have much to learn from each other. Take note!
Ascendant Vertex Compatibility
When someone’s Vertex is conjunct your Ascendant (meaning in the same sign), your Vertex is conjunct their Ascendant. This is an indicator of an intense and often fatal attraction! The two of you may easily stay together for the rest of your lives because of the intense attachment you feel for one another or be bonded through children. The physical attraction is off the charts, and the feeling of attraction is instant. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have this aspect.
You can calculate our Vertex in astrology for free here.
Hi I’m Tameera, nice to meet you! I’m an intuitive, astrologer, master numerologist, relationship alchemist
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I love your blog and get some great tips. My question is more of a shocking discovery I just made. The infamous Doreen Virtue has jumped ship and is now a hardcore christian? What are your thoughts on this? So confused!
Thanks so much for kind words Nicole – my feelings are Doreen Virtue had a walk in!
My vertex is in Capricorn, and the man I love has his vertex in Cancer which are opposite signs….what does that mean??????
Hi Janet thanks for your message. The Vertex is just one aspect to look at I would have to look at the whole chart. With your Vertex’s in opposite signs it can reveal balance like yin and yang between you both. There is SO much to look at though including your numerology. Plus you may have actual planets or houses within each others charts sharing more about your Vertex synastry. If you’d like to go deeper you can book in with me here xo Tameera http://tameera.com/services/life-direction-astrology-numerology-consultation/
Now this really hit home i recently made contact with a much younger individual who has impacted me tremendously. I have practiced astrology for years but I am truly just now learning more about vertex and ascendant connections. Wow. We both have exact vertex ascendant conjunctions n our synastry chart. I genuinely thought I was finished with that part of my life. Never expected this. Still have no idea what is ahead. Thanks for the concise article. It at least helped understand this incredible pull.
Hi Pam thanks so much for your message – how interesting! Yes the vertex and ascendant connections go quite deep. The numerology also shares an incredibly amount of soul information. Lovely to see you are engaged within the ancient sciences xo Tameera
My boyfriend and I have our vertex conjunct vertex in cancer in the 8th house in a tight .11 degree both vertex are 22 degree cancer. I believe he’s my twin flame
Hi Kim thanks for sharing – wow that’s definitely a deep soul connection!! It would be interesting to look deeper with your numerology as well xo Tameera
Same..we have the same vertex and it’s Conjunct and I have a strong feeling he is my tf too
Hi! Wondering what a Vertex conjunct Anti Vertex is??/ Kind regards Stacy P.
Hi Stacy I look more at the Vertex for synastry. The Vertex anti Vertex conjunct could quite possibly be someone whom you have a soul contract with in this lifetime. If you would like me to look deeper at your numerology and planets you can book in here: http://tameera.com/services/life-direction-astrology-numerology-consultation xo Tameera
I dont know his exact time of birth but I know his birthday and I know mine and my time of birth. Does this narrow it down? I also know his lunar moon
Hi Natalie – I can work quite deeply with a name and birthday! If you’d like to go further with a consult you can book here: http://tameera.com/services/life-direction-astrology-numerology-consultation/
Hi Tameera, thank you for this article. I was wondering how vertex trine vertex would be in a synastry chart? Thank you Iftach
That would be a very strong connection with Vertex Trine Vertex!